Jennifer Lopez, famed for her timeless music, charismatic performances, and whirlwind love stories, has finally broken her silence on life post-Ben Affleck. In a candid cover story for Interview magazine, Lopez opened up to comedian Nikki Glaser, revealing a newfound focus on self-reflection rather than searching for her next relationship.

“I’m not looking for anybody,” Lopez shared, emphasizing a shift in perspective on love and relationships. Now 55, Lopez highlighted the importance of personal growth: “You have to be healthy. You have to be complete if you want something that’s more complete.” Reflecting on the past summer, she described her need to stand alone, proving to herself that fulfillment doesn’t have to be tied to someone else.

This personal evolution marks a significant shift for Lopez, who has rarely spent extended periods single. Her journey through love has been widely publicized, beginning with her marriage to Ojani Noa in 1997, followed by a high-profile romance with backup dancer Cris Judd in 2000, whom she married a year later. But as her career blossomed, her love life remained tumultuous.

One of her most talked-about relationships was with Ben Affleck, whom she began dating in 2002 while filming Gigli. Engaged in 2003, they were set for a grand wedding, only to call it off due to relentless media scrutiny. This heartbreak didn’t keep her down for long, though. By July 2004, Lopez surprised the world by marrying fellow artist Marc Anthony, with whom she shares twins. The marriage lasted a decade, ending in 2014.

Lopez’s subsequent relationships with dancer Casper Smart and baseball legend Alex Rodriguez followed similar paths—filled with public displays of affection, blended families, and ultimately, amicable breakups. In her latest interview, Lopez admitted that while being alone was painful, it was necessary: “That doesn’t mean it didn’t almost take me out for good. It almost did.”

Lopez seems resolved to redefine her happiness outside of romance. “Being in a relationship doesn’t define me,” she said. She’s realized the importance of self-sufficiency: “I used to say I’m a happy person, but was still looking for something for somebody else to fill.” Today, she believes she’s found that contentment on her own.

As the “Waiting for Tonight” singer embraces this phase of solitude, her journey offers a fresh take on self-love and resilience, reminding us that sometimes, the most fulfilling relationship is the one we build with ourselves.